Solve psychological ED. Enjoy sex again.

If you can get hard sometimes (alone, with porn, or with certain partners or situations) but not reliably when it really matters to you, there’s almost always a psychological component. This work is for men whose bodies are medically fine, but whose minds are getting in the way.  Before you see me (or anyone like me), see a doctor first so you can be confident you’re not missing a medical issue.  Check out this video for more.

Pills work on blood flow, not on the spiral of pressure, self‑criticism, trauma and overthinking that shows up in the bedroom. Many talk‑only approaches stay at the intellectual level; they don’t reach the real, gut‑level place where the problem actually lives.

So instead of an open‑ended “let’s just talk about it” model, I use hypnotherapy, NLP, metacognitive approaches, coaching, and other practical tools—with a clear aim: so your body can have a different experience—not just your brain a different idea.

I've never had a guy tell me "Oh, I did this with my therapist" during a session.

Because the results are better. When I charged session‑by‑session, it was easier for men to drift or stop right when things were starting to change.

With a flat fee for the whole process, you know I’m committed to seeing this through with you, and you tend to commit at a higher level too. That usually means deeper work, more persistence if things are complex, and a much better chance of solving this for good.

This varies.  For most guys, things are feeling easier within the first few sessions. Many get where they want to be in a handful of meetings rather than months or years.

That said, every situation is different. For some guys, things are more complex.  Results come more slowly and they need a real sense of persistence to see it all the way through.  That’s a big part of why I work on a flat‑fee basis: it helps you commit and see the process through to success.

I see clients worldwide via Doxy (a secure, HIPAA‑style video platform, basically Zoom for doctors and therapists). All you need is a browser and a solid internet connection. If you’re local to Boston, you’re welcome to meet me in my Back Bay office instead.

We usually meet weekly, sometimes every two weeks if one of us is especially busy. Once things are looking solid, we space sessions out to make sure the change sticks.  

Sessions usually run 60–90 minutes. For the first couple of sessions, I suggest you hold a 2‑hour window in your calendar in case we need extra time  If I can help with anything between sessions, you're always welcome to give me a call or drop me a note.

Yes. I work with guys around the world, as long as you speak solid English and our time zones line up.

My normal session times (Eastern Standard Time) are:
– Monday: 12pm, 2pm, 4pm
– Tuesday–Thursday: 10am, 12pm, 2pm, 4pm
– Friday: 10am, 12pm, 2pm

Usually, no. We’ll talk about what’s actually happening enough that I can understand the pattern and help you change it. But you’re always in control of how much detail you share, and I rarely need any play‑by‑play of your sex life for this to work.

Yes. No one needs to know you’ve spoken with me unless you choose to tell them. I don’t share names, details, or stories that could identify you, and I don’t put your information on a mailing list. This is a private, one‑to‑one conversation.

If we don’t get the result we agreed on within 10 sessions and you're not making progress, I refund half the fee (if you are making progress but just not finished yet, we continue with as many sessions as it takes to get the problem completely solved).

That said, I only take guys I’m genuinely confident I can help, and it’s rare that a guy doesn’t succeed when he shows up and does the work. When results are harder to reach, it’s usually because of significant partner or relationship challenges that sit outside the work we’re doing together.

I guarantee all the work indefinitely. If a guy succeeds but the problem comes back weeks/months/years later, there's no extra fee to get things back on track.

I’m not a psychiatrist or psychologist, and that’s by design. I chose a different path so I could use more flexible, effective tools than most of what I saw being taught in traditional talk therapy.

Instead of training inside a medical system, I’ve spent the last twenty-plus years studying and using methods that are intensely practical and results-focused. That includes hypnotherapy (I’m certified by multiple national and international hypnotherapy organizations), metacognitive therapy, rational emotive behavioral therapy, neuro-linguistic programming (NLP), and a range of other conscious, unconscious, and body-based approaches.

The common thread in all of this: I only keep what actually helps clients change in real life. My work is grounded in those two decades of sitting with men, testing what works, and discarding what doesn’t—not in trying to fit you into a diagnostic box.

If you’d like to know more about my background or how this compares to traditional therapy, you’re always welcome to ask.

I’m Brian. I’m based in Boston, and before I ever did therapy or coaching, I spent the 90s as a partner in a startup we grew to a successful acquisition. What I brought from that world into this work is simple: if someone is going to trust you with their time and money, you have to actually help.

I’ve been running a coaching and hypnotherapy practice since 2004, and over time, more and more of my work has focused on psychological ED because I kept seeing how big the shift is when this changes. The relief, the joy, the sense of “I have my life back” is on a different scale than most other issues I see,. So I wanted to put more of my energy here, ideally, to help guys like you.